Signs that a woman becomes stronger: disenchantment

Many people are hesitant to do things and dare not try, because they think that some people and organizations around them are too perfect, and they have superimposed various halos and vanity indicators. Maybe it's because you don't know them well enough that you think they're nice.

First: Disenchant the boss.

Even in the face of seemingly huge gaps between people, don't underestimate yourself easily.

In fact, I often don’t have self-confidence, but I see the direction clearly and know where I am good and where I am not. Be sincere and upright, unite all the forces that can be united, and this will gradually become a thing.

If you haven't tried hard enough, don't say you can't do it. If you haven't tried more than 10 methods, don't say you've tried your best.

Becoming an expert in an industry is not a fantasy. I have mentioned a few steps before:

(1) Find 100 keywords in this industry and figure out the meaning of these words.

(2) Find three to five expert-level people to chat with.

(3) Find three to five monographs and read them thoroughly.

(4) Work hard in this industry for 5-10 years.

Realm, ability, and skills require years of accumulation and practice. No one can succeed casually. Any reward requires solid dedication. Start small and think big, we must grasp what we can control and let go of what we cannot control.

Second: To dispel vanity, the first thing to do is face.

I have always said that when we achieve something, we should not pay too much attention to other people's opinions. We should know that we cannot control the results, let alone the opinions of others.

Freshly graduated college students cannot take off the "Kong Yiji" gown; migrant workers in big cities must "return home in fine clothes" to have dignity.

Because you are afraid of failing and being laughed at, you don’t dare to try. This is because you are too concerned about face and ignore the first principle of success: being too shameless will drag you down your life; being shameless will make things happen.

From now on, shift your focus on face to really useful things, such as reading more and paying more attention to the thinking and achievements of predecessors.

No matter what others say, don't disrupt your own rhythm, don't let people with ulterior motives succeed, and do what you want to do firmly.

Over time, you will find that your horizons have improved, it will be easier to achieve things, and your face will naturally come back.

Third: Disenchantment with material desires.

For ordinary people, I would like to point out an everyday trap that business society revolves around the differences that motivate humans.

There are basic types of clothing, food, housing and transportation, and there must be light luxury models, heavy luxury models, and top-notch models, and it must let you know where these differences exist.

Driven by material levels, if you can't get this thing and enjoy this kind of enjoyment, you will feel very uncomfortable.

In fact, if you can get this thing, you may not think it is that good, and even if you think it is that good, your satisfaction will be lost the moment you get it, and you will not be so happy.