How can women succeed? The key is to learn these ways of thinking

The main difference between ordinary people and big men who continue to succeed is actually the difference in thinking. If you learn the thinking of big men, you can also succeed better!

1. Be sure that you can succeed

Generally, people who continue to succeed are people with a firm heart. Most of them have a clear main line and goal in life and know what they want.

As I wrote in "The Strong Break the Game": The reason why the bird dares to stand freely and openly on the branch is not that it believes that the branch will not break, but that it believes that it has wings. Even if the branch breaks, it can still fly.

2. Change circles and move up

The higher you go, the more you need to study people. Moving up means changing circles. If possible, try to get in touch with people with higher abilities, stronger abilities, and better results.

Don't underestimate your potential, and don't underestimate the potential of people around you. The heroes who never appear in the world and the chosen ones are likely to be by your side.

3. Learn and improve your comprehensive ability

Learning is an important quality of many big men. For example, Liu Bang in "Zizhi Tongjian" is not a military general, nor is he a person who is very careful and meticulous in doing things, but he will learn management from Xiao He and learn clever calculations and planning from Zhang Liang.

Liu Bang may not be the strongest in a single point, but through learning, his comprehensive ability is the strongest.

4. Only by continuously accomplishing small things can you have the capital to accomplish big things

I also wrote in "The Strong Break the Game": Your emotions are not the first priority, your face is not the first priority, things are the first priority, and continuing to accomplish more things is the first priority. From the overall perspective, people who can do small things well are more likely to do big things well.

So don't think about expanding territory and competing for the Central Plains at the beginning. First accomplish small things, and continue to accomplish small things, then you will have the ability and capital to accomplish big things.

5. Keep your energy

The root cause of pressure, in addition to your excessive desire, there is another reason: being too serious. Every flower must have its own flowering period. You only need to focus on how far your road is left, and you don't have to look at how far the distance from others is. Don't invest in meaningless people and things.