The first step for women to succeed: let go

The first step for women to succeed: let go

1. Don't be too obsessed with love

The biggest reason why girls get mentally ill may be that they want to find true love. You can let go of true love, but don't be so obsessed. Young people are obsessed with love, and mature women always know what they want.

Learn to disenchant love. True and long-lasting love is based on altruism, self-interest, and interests. Talking about love is not vulgar, and talking about interests is even less vulgar. The key is to stay sober.

2. Be good to yourself

Dare to reconcile with yourself, and know that you can't satisfy everyone. Dare to offend people and let others think that this girl is so ignorant.

It's enough for you to use half of your tolerance for others on yourself. Don't go against yourself, don't be twisted, and vent your anger.

The heroine will not look ahead and behind, and her heart is strong enough to be a bastard.

3. Know how to make trade-offs and retreat to advance

Smart people will not insist on their own positions on every decision. They know how to make compromises and concessions at the right time, retreat to advance, and maximize their own interests.
Knowing that the essence of decision-making is actually trade-offs, it is a choice, and you can restrain your desires and focus on the areas you choose to achieve.

When you encounter a situation where there is no room for two tigers in one mountain, you must resolutely retreat, step back in big strides, and then find another mountain to climb.

4. Steady mentality and stable success

With the mentality and rhythm of a marathon, winning to the end is the real win. Never ruminate on pain, look at your own shadow and feel sorry for yourself, just focus on things that make you strong, stick to your stable core, and don't care what others say.

Do things with a high chance of winning, increase confidence, and increase continuous energy output.

Do slow and long-term things, keep your heart stable in the era full of various uncertainties, avoid anxiety and internal consumption, plan the overall situation, and win in the end.

5. Know people's hearts and understand human nature

Put down your face and see the truer self. The stronger the achiever, the more he can put down his status and fight for what he wants to achieve his goal, even if he exposes his own flaws. The most amazing ability of a person is to know himself and use himself well. When seeking cooperation with others, think from the perspective of others, follow his human weaknesses, and think about strategies with altruistic thinking. It is much faster to use human weaknesses than to use human strengths, because human weaknesses are solid, long-lasting, and continuous. 6. Plan small things first, then big things. Only those who can do small things well can do big things; only those who can manage a small team well can manage a large team well. From the overall situation, people who can do small things well are more likely to do big things well. Start with things that can be done at hand, such as developing good habits of reading paper books, not looking at mobile phones, and insisting on exercising, so that you can calm down and not be impetuous, so that you can achieve things. Start with the technology you are good at and the things you like, do jobs that can make money and have some growth, and continue to achieve small things, so that you have the capital and ability to achieve big things.