It is difficult for a woman who is obsessed with love to be happy

It is difficult for a woman who is obsessed with love to be happy
How can you be a free, happy and happy woman? I have three suggestions.

First: Be good to yourself. The most basic thing is to try not to get cancer.

I have a nine-character motto, called "Don't be anxious, don't be afraid, don't be shameless". If you do this, it is very likely that your chances of getting cancer will decrease. It is the same for boys and girls, but it is more likely for girls.

I myself observed in the hospital environment what kind of girls are prone to cancer?

Especially some gynecological cancers, they are often some good people in the real sense, and good people in the ordinary sense are easy to get.

The so-called good person is that he tastes all the grievances by himself, is unwilling to talk about things, and is tolerant and retreating. It is mainly based on giving in, tolerance, and considering the overall situation.

Such girls and such girls are good-looking.

Girls should also be better to themselves. To put it bluntly, you need to have an outlet to vent. You either look at it openly, or have your own hobbies, or have a bunch of girlfriends.

No matter what you are like, you have to realize that it is not right to keep it in your heart and always carry it by yourself.

Second: Don't be too obsessed with love

The biggest reason for boys to get mental illness is that they want to compete for the Central Plains and do big things. The biggest reason for girls to get mental illness may be that they want to find true love.

You see, when you are in love, you are often asked, will you love me forever? How is it possible? I don't know what I will be like in three years, can you know? If you don't know something yourself, how can you promise others.

So what I want to say is that you can take it and can't let it go for true love, but don't be so obsessed.

Third: Be independent

Many girls may not like to hear this, but I still have to say it.

You can say that in terms of economy, for example, your boyfriend or your husband makes the most money, but I suggest that you still have the confidence to say that if you don't have that person, I can still support myself, and that the income can meet the life I want.

If you don't have this confidence, you will have to rely on others for food, and you will pin many ideas and expectations on this person, and in the end both of you will be uncomfortable.

You take care of the family more, and the other person earns more outside, but that is the wealth created by both of you. You can't say that I will just lie down completely, not study, read books, read newspapers, and not strengthen my brain training. You still need to have a sense of management.

If we really can't live together, then let's talk about responsibilities, rights, and interests. I can wash my face and hair, and I can still work when I go out.